Depression remedies

I’m just curious as to what honest opinions are about people who are on disability. I’m on medical disability for depression. Would you date someone who you knew (from the beginning) was on disability? Or would that be a turn off to you? Be honest now.

I’m hoping to be going back to work at the first of the year (fingers crossed!), but it’s always bothered me as to how my being on disability is perceived by others. I know it can be looked at as something very negative. I know it shouldn’t matter, but I hate to tell people that I don’t work and am on disability for depression. I’m 28 and to look at me, there’s nothing “wrong” but depression has just been really dibilitating to me over the past several years. I really hope that I can make friends and find the person I was meant to marry and I’m doing things to try to make that happen, but I was just wondering. Yes, I’m in therapy and it’s helping…thank goodness!

Honest answers not politically correct ones.

and most of them are like so needy too. Why is it that I feel that’s all I can get and I’m intimidated by young hot women? I don’t even bother hitting up hot girls on plentyoffish or myspace because I know they won’t want me anyway. Am I the only guy like this?

My boyfriend dumped me while in another country because he realized “he didn’t love me” but he is showing all the signs of clinical depression. How do I help him all while saving our relationship?

We’re both 14 and go to different schools. We dated for 4 months and I broke it off because it was becoming a bit repetitive and my heart just wasn’t in it anymore. I didn’t want to hurt him so I said we could still be friends and we talk on MSN all the time. Recently, though, he’s been texting me loads, like 15times a day, and I don’t ever want to reply. I reply about half the time because I feel bad not doing but it gets really annoying.

He’s also a bit full-on on MSN. Take last night, for example, I signed off MSN and said goodnight and that I was going because I had stomach cramp. He said “oh, is it your period?” which I thought was a bit too full-on to talk to an ex about and I don’t really feel comfortable talking about my period to guys…

So I didn’t reply to that and signed off. Now when Isign on this morning he’s left me an offline message. This is it:
“Tom               said:
goodnight
           Tom               said:
In many women, various intense sensations brought about by the involved hormones and by cramping of the uterus can precede or accompany menstruation. Stronger sensations may include significant menstrual pain (dysmenorrhea), abdominal pain, migraine headaches, depression, emotional sensitivity, feeling bloated, and changes in sex drive. Breast discomfort caused by premenstrual water retention or h
           Tom               said:
hormone fluctuation is very common. The sensations experienced vary from woman to woman and from cycle to cycle.
           Tom               said:
i just found that on wikipedia, is it anything like your stomach?”

I also have a text telling me he lost the football game he was playing earlier, and asking how my stomach is… Now to me this is too fullon, I know he’s just trying to be nice but I’m not a saint and there’s only so much of this I can take. How can I tell him, nicely, to back off and not text me/asl me personal questions?

I don’t want to hurt him at all and I still want to be friends although I don’t want to talk every second of every day!

Thanks for all your help guys on this difficult subject
Magicman, yeah it is puppy love on his part I think. But a bit embarrassing all the same.